I have no shame of admitting it! and why should i??? However, that was with a regular "special friend" ( i hope you all do have at least one or two of those "special friends" when we needs their services).
But why does everything has to be revolved around S.E.X?!?
A month ago, i was invited by a friend from aboard to visit his country, i met him in person when i was vacation in Vietnam, and we got a long great. So i thought, yeah, why not, i had fun hanging out with him, he's a great guy, i do missed doing fun things with him such as eating out, sight seeing, and clubbing. He offered to pay for my flight to his country, however, there was a deal breaker, I HAVE TO SLEEP (SEX) with him!!! I don't denied that we did have some "fun" last time when we met in Vietnam, but to me that was just an extra icing on the cake. It happened because we clicked on all levels while we was hanging out.
However, when someone is FORCING me, or making me "put out" because he's doing something favorable to me, while I considered him as a really good friend of mine, then that person is NOT a friend of mine anymore!
I know all men are dogs, and we think with our dicks 24hrs/day, but to me, there are far more important values to a friendship than just SEX. Such as companionship, the thought that your friends will be there when you are down, backing you up if anything go against your way, on and on...
That's why when i like someone as a friend, or whatever may come of it, i NEVER afraid to admitted to him right away that i like him a lot, and i care for him a lot. Because FRIENDSHIP is like an investment, you put a lot of cares, nurtures, and communications into it and let it grow to whatever it may become. I get really pissed off when someone who i think are my friends, and vice versa, used sex as a leverage! I DONT do that!!! why would i invested my times, energy, money, thoughts, emotions, caring about someone who i thought as friend, and because his dick or my dick got hard for that second, and fucked it up what we have built so far???
That's the job of your "special friend" or should i blatantly said it out loud as that's the job of your F*CK BUDDY!!! I know we all have at least one, two, three or even more... When you get your urges, you go to them, have your "NO STRING ATTACH" fun with them and that's it! You leave the people you cared as FRIENDS out of that mess! i GOT so paranoid one time when i was hanging out with a new friend i just met, we hung out a couple times, and got a long great, then i got introduced to his friend and over heard him asking my new friend " have you had sex with Kevin yet?" I was FLOOR!!!
The last thing i wanted to be is one of those old dudes in their late 50s' or 60s' without any friends, all by themselves, lurking all alone in night clubs after night clubs searching for someone who give a sh*t about them. Nor i want to be one of those old farts hanging out with a bunch of Juveniles and pay for their drinks or whatever to get something in return from them.
I would rather f*ck with a "special friend" or in a worst possible situation that my cock about to explode and i need a service of that fancy male companionship in one of those Boi magazines, i can have it taken care of right away, HERE IN CHICAGO, for about $250 or whatever the price is. I DON'T have to whip out my passport to fly 1/2 way around the world or have someone fly in here from god know where, or wasted my times, energy, and a lot of money just to have some S.E.X with people i considered as FRIENDS.
So hopefully, everything doesn't have to be revolved around S.E.X
I'm an Optimistic, i hope so too!
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