When I Grow up

"When I was just a little boy,

I asked my Mama: Mama, What will I be?

Will I be pretty with a big bootay?

Will I be the gayest with the bitchiest attitude?

or Will I be old and still act like a lil Shanequa down the block?

And here was her replied,

'No' to pretty and big bootay, you'll be an old hag.

'Yes' to the gayest and bitchiest

and 'YES' to the old and Shanequa thing."

Hahaha... Sorry for butchering up that "Que Sara, Sara" song, I was watching TV and there was a commercial for Panasonic plasma tv, and they were using that song, so it was stuck in my head all day. I had to come up with something funny to killed that damn song in my head, other wise it will stuck in repeat on my head until i blogged it on here! 

Which brought me to the next subject, when will I GROW UP??? 

Does the age of a person really have something to do with being a GROW UP???

I just turned 30 this year, and a BIG THANKS, or should i said slaps in my face from a certain person i ONCE CONSIDERED as CLOSED FRIEND, thinks that I'm pathetic for being a 30 years old and should acted my age. 

Then how do a 20's something years old should act for their age?

How do a 30's something years old like myself should act for my age?

How do a 40's something years old should act? and so on...

I never hide the fact that I'm 30 years old and acted like a child from times to times. However, in my defend, i do know when to do the GROWN UP things when dealing with others that cared a great deal.  Being a GROWN UP doesn't have to be with a particular age's group, i had seen guys in their TEENS acted very mature.  Being mature doesn't mean that you have to acted all stiffed, and lay down the laws, NO mean NO kinda things. 

Being a Grown up can means other things to me, such as:

Have some common decencies toward the people you called as friends

Don't take advantages of your friend's kindness and hospitality

Be NICE to your friends, they may not be the best @ the thing you do, but they'll make it up in other ways, that's why we all have friends! duh!

Have a basic etiquette when interact with friends and people you cared about. If your friend took a taxi to the airport to pick your ass up in a strange city, make sure you paid him back for or at least paid for dinner. 

And genuinely cared about your friends, be kinds to them, because friends are hard to find, and GOOD friends who give a shit about are HARDER to KEEP!

For me, I can still be all GROWN UP and at the same time  acted like a kid, cause i know which situations to applied myself in. Some people i knew claimed they're all grown up, college educated and such, yet they acted like an infant.  They can't even performed basic etiquette , can't even have some common decencies toward their friends. Now tell me, if I'm an immature 30 years old still know how to treats and take cares of my friends, yet i have to tell a college educated person how to acts and treats his friends, who's a GROWN UP now huh? ;-P